Wednesday, July 28, 2010

How would you advise me to do this?

There's this girl that works at the same grocery store as me and I really want to ask her out. Only thing is i get really nervous and don't know what to say. I kinda worry that ill say something stupid. I dont have alot of experience with this either. What do i do, and what do i say????How would you advise me to do this?
ask her out. that's the only way to know. whether it ends good or bad it's also the only way you'll get practice asking a girl out. so you won't loose either way. GOOD LUCK! HAVE FUN!





p.s. you're both young, so who cares if it's a work romance. they happen all the time and they can be fun! How would you advise me to do this?
Ok what to do:


You need to act calmly. Don't be nervous. If you get nervous think of it as: i am just talking to a person, she is exactly like me. She has two arms, two legs, two eyes, a brain and a heart. The only thing different is that she is a girl and you are a guy! Just causally walk up to her and act as if you were just talking to her about stock from the supermarket.





What to say:


Say something along the lines of:


Hey, i was just wondering if you would like to catch a movie or go and get some dinner. If you don't want to i understand however i just hope that you can give it a try. OR you could say a joke to crack the ice. And then when she is laughing say: 'Hey do you wanna maybe catch a movie sometime?'





If she says no then handle your rejection properly. Don't change your attitude towards her because you never know she might change her mind!





Hope it all works out!
I am a supervisor at a grocery store, and i hate to burst your bubble, but workplace romances can be a very bad idea. If you are serious about dating her, you need to ask her outside the workplace, and keep it professional at work.

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