Thursday, August 19, 2010

Advise!...?

theres this girl at school and i want to talk to her but i dont know why im too nervous . im usually not so nervous but i dont know what to do. i dont want to go over and it be ackward or something .





anyways , whats a good way to talk to a girl that you dont know?Advise!...?
Start with 'hey, what's up?' and go from there. If the chemistry is there you all will just find things to talk about. That said, if it's not there the conversation won't go anywhere no matter how much you practice.





Good luck.Advise!...?
well, is she in one of your classes? if so, then it should be relatively easy, because you already know you have something in common with her. After the next test, just ask her ';hey, how do think you did?'; or if you are ever sick or something, you can ask her if you missed anything. Just act confident and nice and approachable, and it won't be awkward at all. Just try and relax! Also, you should try and catch her eye in class sometime and smile at her!
start off by passing notes at school - then take things from there
just be sweet...girls like that...she won't make fun of u or laugh at you or anything!
u need nt worry, jus go up to her! try to find wht she is intrested in..get sm topic started up..or jus ask her for her notes...jus speak up...but don sound too nervous..smile nd it'll all be fine...jus get goin...
say hi how r u don't talk about boring things
Walk up and say hi. Ask her about something in the news, or if she's seen a movie.





Girls are people too. It's just as hard for us.





And don't be too hard on yourself.
just casually talk and dont come on too strong





but most importantly try not to be awkward
Well I suggest that you go to her anyway because some guy is going to get that girl. So go on and talk to her. It might look hard but really it's very easy to talk ounce your talking random. I'm a girl and so many boys fell for me and you know what? They all never told me and I never liked them for that. I ounce liked a guy and didn't tell and what happened? I didn't get him. Well he found out himself and still today everyone looks at me and thinks that's ........... who liked ................ So go up and tell her.
i think a good way to do this is:





Find out her msn maybe from bebo, facebook etc or ask one of her friends, if she doesn't have msn ask for her number off someone, then give her a text or talk on msn, say something like ';hi iv seen you around im ..... is it alright i added you'; then talk the next day at school and you'll be in! nice one! good luck
Look for things you two have in common. For instance, if you like to read and you see her with a book one day, come up POLITELY and comment on the book. It's a good way to start a conversation and a friendship! Oh, and don't introduce yourself as the first thing you say. Allow her to respond to your comment, then add ';By the way, my name is....';
Ask for her notes for history class or whatever class you two may have together or the same teacher for. Also u could get a study group together that includes her.
if you're not comfi face to face, then try getting her AIM name or text her :-)
girls love it when boys act nervous around them! just go up and be yourself! or you can practice what you are going to say before you actually go talk to her. Just spend a couple minuets in front of the mirror in the morning going over what you are going to say before you go to school!





Good luck!


*KJ*
try to make eye contact. if she looks at you, smile. then if she smiles back, talk to her.
Think of things that you might have in common with her, ask her how her day has been, sometimes girls like when u act nervous bc it shows u like her..


hope everything works out btwn yall!

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